Monday, June 9, 2014

Gone Fishin'




The Farmer’s Wife has been off fishing this past week and I am filling in.  It seems only appropriate to make fishing the theme of the week.

Oh...its not as bad as it looks….just one of those brilliant photo ops parents stage that exceed expectations, but not in the way intended.

I should be a better fisherman than I am.  Both my grandfathers counted fishing near the top of their avocations. It was assumed that we would learn to fish about the same age we learned to read!  The poles were Zebco, of course, with sturdy nearly jam free reels, and  the shiny metal tackle box was a wonder.  My grandfather’s tackle box was a splendid many layered thing with so many compartments, it was like the magician’s hat that would spit out scarf after scarf after scarf after scarf.  There were spoons and spinners and spools of multi colored line, gooey fluorescent fake worms and cunning little popping bugs and gleaming artificial minnows with staring painted eyes and jigs that were supposed to jump enticingly along the bottom.  There were bobbers of every size and swivels and lead weights to pinch above your hooks.

We learned to cast from the garden wall with rubber plugs on the ends of our lines, aiming for the inner circle of the automobile belts Grandpa laid out in the driveway. But we had no need for all that exotic paraphernalia in Grandpa’s box.  No trolling, no motors, no fancy ties or flies; I learned to fish from the dock of a farm pond. And I didn’t get to drop my line until I caught my own bait.


Earthworms were readily available in the bottomless bucket Grandpa kept buried near his garden, unless the summer was a real scorcher.  I was never a big fan of nightcrawlers; too big and too much guts. I preferred a worm of just the right diameter to stick several times on the hook: that way I wouldn’t be re-baiting if some precocious bluegill took a nibble unawares.  Stinking of OFF, down the path through the fescue we’d go to the pond. We weren’t allowed to catch bass, just sunfish.The bass were set free to grow into lunkers.  Sometimes we’d cast out and watch our bobbers until our eyes crossed. Sometimes we tightlined right by the dock, shedding our bobbers and fishing by feel.  The bullfrogs would grunt around us, get spooked by our casts, and make rings in the still water.  


Dry summers meant grasshoppers for bait.  Not as fun.  First you had to chase the darn things down through the sharp grass.  Then you had to hook them...under the collar and through the head was easiest, but made it more likely that your hopper would fly off before he hit the water.  If Grandpa were around, we were supposed to hook securely through the rear end...but that made the hopper spit “tobacco juice”all over one’s hands.  Why was that brown juice worse than worm guts? I have no idea; it just was.  If possible, I tried to solve this problem by catching little brown and orange hoppers and not the big ones that flew.  They kept their spit to themselves.


Fishing was the tie that bound us to our grandfathers.  I never thought about it then; we were all too happy being kids turned loose for the summer.  But these many years past, I am happy to have those memories of sunburnt summer afternoons fading to foggy humid evenings, of watching my grandfather’s skilled hands tie on leaders or extract hooks from the little silver fish with the blue gills, of learning to wait….and be still.

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Lizzie and Josh and Ecclesiastes 3:9-13:


     9 What gain has the worker from his toil? 
10 I have seen the business that God has given to the children of man to be busy with. 11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. Also, he has put eternity into man's heart, yet so that he cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end. 
Lizzie and Josh are riding back to town with me after work today.  As we pass the truck parking lot, Lizzie tells Josh, "That's a truck for hauling pigs."  Josh says, "My daddy drives a truck.  He drives a flower truck."  Lizzie: "Josh, you can haul pigs when you're big and I'll haul flowers. Grandma, does it cost to work at the farm? "

Me: "Lizzie, when you work, you get paid; you don't have to pay to work at the farm. You make money if you work."

 Josh: "I will drive the pig truck."

More than a couple of springs have come and gone since Matt joined us at Hurst Greenery and more than a decade since Lee and Ryan got married, came home, and made us a two generation operation.  I won't tell you how many years since Blake and I hauled our stuff home from college in the back of a '74 Ford grain truck.  When I hear the kids in the back seat talk about working in this family business like its a foregone conclusion, like its as natural a progression as winter turning to spring, I  don't make 'em sign on the dotted line, but it does bring a smile and a little prayer of gratitude for an upbringing so transparent that they know at age three what work is and who does it.

Out here on the farm, we can take this particular phenomenon for granted. In no other industry is generational transfer the norm; in no other business in this modern age in this nation do parents routinely "take their kids to work" and children "follow in their footsteps", learning at the knees of not just mom and dad, but grandma and grandpa, too.

Ahh.  But this gradual learning curve is one of those passes not granted to in laws.  As an import myself, I have often thought that marrying into a family farm must feel like being blindfolded and thrown into a trunk, only to be freed in a country where everyone speaks a different tongue that you don't understand.

This is what brings the Ecclesiastes passage to mind.

How else would I take pleasure in all my toil; how else would this "business..to be busy with.." be "beautiful in its time."   There are disappointments and distress; there are sharp words and fatigue;  but there are bonds strengthened under stress and relieved with laughter and the knowledge that tomorrow and tomorrow and the days after we will still work together.

There are the kids helping pick out pretty flowers (he knows what he likes!)...

At seed time there is no guarantee of successful harvest.  We plant the flowers and hope for happy customers and repeat orders, for the winds to be gentle and the checks to clear. We hope to flourish;we want to grow. We pray with the Preacher of Ecclesiastes that, like Lizzie and Josh, we may appreciate God's gift to us all on the land :

 12 I perceived that there is nothing better for them than to be joyful and to do good as long as they live; 13 also that everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in all his toil—this is God's gift to man."



Sunday, May 11, 2014

From Mom

 
Behind the cards, handmade, flowery, sweet and sincere...



 ...are the kids loved from their creation...


They know their mom like the back of their own hands; they shower her with flowers, with baseball, with history..but there is no measure for the endless joy and pride she takes in them.
Now grown with youngsters of their own, they are learning the hard lessons of give and take, when to stand firm and when to give in, when to build fences and when to set free.





 ...as mothers have learned to do from generation to generation.  We rock, we cuddle, as long as we dare...








 ....we take pleasure in what we teach.....
...what we share....
 
 
because you can never hug, listen, comfort, pray, or laugh too much...



I am not the best at the job of being a mom...


...but it is the job I love best....

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Let There Be Water Under the Bridge: April

This is what happens in April.
 Saturday evening.  I am watering wilted fuchsia baskets in the big house when Blake calls. He has checked the reservoir for possibly the 50th time this week and likely the tenth time this warm day with wind gusts up to forty mph from the south. "How're you doing?" he asks. This is a shorthand I understand.
 "Are we done? I'm watering sad fuchsias" 
 "Will they die? If you water them now, it will be all salt water.." 
We have a deep well, but it is so high in sodium, we have to mix it with our sweet well.
  I lift a couple of baskets to check...."No, they'll make it til tomorrow."

I shut off the hydrants and walk up the hill to the office.  Lee and Ryan, who have also been at the business end of a garden hose, are ahead of me.  We've done what can be accomplished with the resources we have.  The rest will just have to wait, just as we look to the skies, our phones, and the ten o'clock meteorologist to gauge our chances for relief. When there's no more you can do, you just go home.

At least it is Saturday night.  I've promised to grill some burgers for my husband.  This simple meal will include a head of cauliflower chopped and the seasoned burgers sprinkled with some tomato basil feta that appealed to me at the HyVee and hearty chunks of last summer's lime pickles. Blake will not complain.
Chopping the head of cauliflower reminds me of our trip to California's Salinas Valley last summer.  The Salinas Valley is a potpourri of food production, a crazy quilt of edibles in all stages from transplant to harvest, leafy greens to artichokes, all possible through the judicious and calibrated use of irrigation.  After two years of shortened field crops and the constant worry and expense of providing water to our greenhouse plants, I know what it is to deal with scarcity. We don't have a spigot to turn on when we need it.

But there is no agency turning that spigot off either. We scoop up some dip with our crunchy cauliflower only as long as there is water for those farms in California, only as long as those farms and that produce have sufficient value to society.  If, perchance, some California critter is declared scarce, the vast and productive farms return to the dust from whence they emerged.

The greenhouses are home to creatures above ground and below.  We fight the ages old battles with the rodents human history has pronounced a scourge; we stumble to avoid squishing harmless toads; we clean sparrow nests and wasp nests from our machinery and chimneys.  But there are marvels too.  The first butterflies of the season, the red admirals,  find a flowering oasis; hummingbirds in transit buzz through for a week or so.

  The locals make their best nests cheek by jowl with the working parts of the business. I enjoy the robins of spring, the swallows of summer that scoop snacks off the greenhouse plastic like it was a glassy ocean, the killdeer that ply their wiles in the fall as I pace the watering route in the mum patch. The line between habitat and human is large and blurred and is home to life abundant and sometimes unexpected.

There are two ways to solve the water shortage at Hurst Greenery.  One is to put the flowers on the trucks and send them to someone else to plant and care for; to change this:

into this:


And the other is Nature's way:


April should be for showers in our part of the world and if we spend some chilly days in raincoats with wet feet, we deal with it stoically, knowing all too well what pristine spring day after pristine spring day yields in the long term of July.  Rainy days in April go into the soil bank, literally, to be withdrawn by crops in the field and mums in the pots and flowers in the garden.  I'm donning my raincoat and three layers of shirts today on my way to work, hoping to squeeze another quarter inch out of the uncomfortable drizzle.
This is one part of April....


....and this is another...

Mud makes the grass grow....

Saturday, April 19, 2014

The Good Shepherd and Other Verses



He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young. Isaiah 40:11


"Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning ." Psalm 30:5


This is one of my special verses and none the less apt for Good Friday and Holy Saturday. Even as we go about our daily tasks, we are chastened by the awareness of our burden of guilt, of the awareness of our sin in every endeavor, even when our intentions are good. We read the drama of Holy Week with dread, as if we aren't certain how the story will end. We are those disciples: unaware, ignorant, shallow, unimaginative. We may not be sensitive to our failing day in and day out, but we are on Good Friday.

What bliss, what joy, what light hearts we experience on Easter morn! We are children of the King and we find an innocent pleasure in every detail of His glorious creation. With those memories in mind, give thanks for the joys of the morning... through the eyes of happy children and the Words we have received from our Father Himself...