Sunday, September 17, 2017

Merry Hearts and Good Medicine

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Are you smiling yet?  Just a bit?  I am, because my photo albums turn up gem after gem just like these from the man of dozens of funny voices and a hundred funny faces. Ryan has no shame before a camera; selfies like the ones above will appear, unadvertised and unannounced, on phones and cameras left unattended.  On any given day, Lee is liable to say, in her most threatening voice, “HON--EY!”  when her husband refuses to be serious or takes a gag a step too far…
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...or laugh, stating, “That’s why I married you….”
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 Laughter expands at an increasing rate. Good humor smooths the grind of hard work….kinda like a cold beer at the end of the day.  
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Comedy loves company.  And the camera is happy to record.  Every funny face, every antic, every delighted grin by kids of every age….
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But if Ryan is the Big Kahuna of Humor in the family, Josh is a close second at six going on seven. More than happy to dress funny, not dress at all, to ham it up for the camera...or apparently just for practice… one never knows who will mug for the camera: sweet huggable little boy Josh...or wild woolly rubber lipped sight gagging show-off steal-the-show Josh.
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Holy Scripture spells it out in the book of Proverbs, King James version, like this:

A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.”

George Bernard Shaw condenses all these pictures into these few words:


Thanks be for the merry hearts that make our happy family more heavenly….

Thursday, September 7, 2017

Just One of Those Very Good Days

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It’s been a fine fallish evening with folks in black and orange cheering on the junior high boys on a long grass field at a small town school.  Dust from the gravel road clouds the home team’s sidelines on a stiff northwesterly breeze.  Yesterday’s weird orange wildfire fueled light has yielded to a textbook fall blue with wind driven whitetail clouds. Despite the cool temperatures, it feels like a corn drying day, like the husks are bleaching and corn is denting as our lips cry for chapstick and we pull our Wolves sweatshirts over our Wolves t-shirts, warding off a chill that is really still a month away.  
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After a win, we stop for supper like football families usually do...tonight at the Joy Wok where we know Matt and Lizzie, in the Dodge Ram and 26’ trailer, will park as easily as Ann’s minivan with two sets of grandparents and a very hungry six year old.  “Oh I love this place!”, or words similar is what Josh has to say, even though he expressed doubts about “eating Chinese” moments before.  And, sure enough, the notion of instant Chinese buffet has occurred to more than one EA sports family as the Joy Wok fills table by table and the cooks bring fresh ribs and wontons and coconut shrimp.  Josh and Lizzie go back for more; we watch Josh to see what he thinks of his Sweet Sour Sauced bananas….


They disappear without a trace.  Who says little kids are unadventurous eaters.


Matt talks about their new home in progress.  Ann worries about two different business trips to Canada or Washington, D.C.  Millie continues the ongoing saga of the lone chicken.  Blake is on his phone to Ben concerning a notorious case. As Ann left us off at home, a big white moon lit the path to the back door.  We turned on the late West Coast feed of the Cardinals-San Diego and settled into our comfy chairs. I download the pictures from another year’s first football game.


Then I heard Frank Sinatra....


See, back in 1966, he had a hit with a song titled ‘It Was a Very Good Year.’  And that is the phrase I heard, not the lyrics, (look ‘em up and you’ll see what I mean  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydcUaTpiHgQ )
but the slow almost plaintive melody, the conversational phrasing, and the contemplative resolution of each stanza with, “It Was a Very Good Year.”
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Why did Sinatra’s melody come to mind? Because tomorrow is one of those very good days:  Aaron’s 14th birthday!  This evening I threw my arm around his tall (and getting taller!)  shoulders and asked him what kind of doughnuts he prefers. Preschool doughnut delivery is our tradition and if Ann can scare up a candle, we will sing and even make Aaron blow it out first thing.  It was a very good evening when Annie and Matt brought over a small package for Ben to open years ago; it contained a box of Uncle Ben’s rice, a play-on-words gift that was a little too cute and too smart for these dumbfounded grandparents-to-be.  Once we came to our senses, it was all glorious excitement not just for our sake, but for our kids and the thrilling adventure that was to be.


If I were to catalog memorable days, certainly the births of our babies and the stories we tell of those days would be on the list.  But as memorable are the days we learned they were anticipated, that they existed, and were going to be loved all those days before we met them.  I cried when they stepped out in faith and were baptized in their church...and when they said their wedding vows in front of loved ones and friends.  Those were also very good days….
On the one hand are these landmark days that fill us to overflowing, make us fall to our knees, they are so overwhelming. On the other hand are wonderful times built of seemingly mundane moments that grab us by the throat, demanding our attention with little building blocks of joy, if we but notice them and measure their small happiness-es.

How could I ever choose a single best day from all these memorable, all these wonderful, all these miraculous, days?

Sunday, September 3, 2017

A Heart Healthy Diet

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Are you hungry?  I’m not, having consumed a generous helping of Spanish rice and Italian sausage, enhanced with sauteed onion and a pepper fresh from the garden.  I limited the pepper contribution after the aroma cleared my nose as I sliced it; that sensation made me think my long green pepper was a Garden Salsa, classified medium hot. Spice is nice, but too hot is not!


But tomorrow is Saturday, and even though there are no cartoons in my future, I’ll roll out of bed just a little jollier knowing there’s a Mrs. Peters’ coffeecake on the counter to accompany the first cup of coffee.  It’s a simple dish, the kind of cake you can make anytime with what’s in your cupboard: two eggs, some milk, sugar, oleo, flour, baking powder and cinnamon. That’s one reason this coffeecake is one of my favorite recipes. Another is its provenance: I copied the recipe word for word from my mom’s card, right down to the admonition to use a toothpick to check for doneness because it’s a terrible flop if it’s not.  She got it from my godmother, my mom and dad’s landlady when they moved to Lemont, Illinois for my dad’s first job out of college.  My godmother and her husband, Emil, were German.  Mrs. Peters was a wonderful cook and a generous lady, sending birthday cards with five dollar bills, the most money I ever had to spend.  Their house was cozy, piled high with rugs and afghans and pillows, but its most captivating feature was the cuckoo clock that hung in the hallway.  My sister and I watched that clock like hawks, enthralled by the little bird popping out of his door on the hour.


The only downside of Mrs. Peters’ coffeecake is what pan to use...my mom cooked it in a 9”square pan and never seemed to have that dreaded ‘flop’.  I struggled for years with a slightly smaller Pyrex square, but finally settled on a fairly large pottery pie plate….and it makes for a prettier presentation!

Though Mrs. Peters is long gone, her legacy continues up here in northwest Missouri, far away from Lemont and her native land.


My father basted almost everything he grilled with a sauce of Worcestershire, butter and onion.  He’d call in from the garage door to my mom when he was ready to sauce up the burgers or chicken or steak. The only exception was barbequed chicken, a painstaking production requiring multitudinous bastings with the mixture of ketchup, the ubiquitous Worcestershire, and butter. It was a special meal whenever my dad grilled. My mom made a dish she called “Boccherini ala Romano’ that I loved.  Made with round steak, green peppers, ham steak, and mozzarella cheese layered and baked in the long Corningware pan with the blue flowers, it doesn’t really sound like something that would appeal to a youngster, but the meats would be super tender, the pepper added zest, and no kid turns down an opportunity to string mozzarella from plate to fork to mouth.  I cannot find a recipe with that name after all these years, but perhaps that moniker was a creation of my father’s inventive mind…
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It isn’t just what we cook but who we cook with that makes our food memorable.  Putting up sweet corn, or processing chickens, or canning tomatoes or freezing apple pies, are jobs that beg for company, for conversation, for storytelling, commiserating, and handing down of traditions.  I used to peel bucket after bucket of little apples in Millie’s old kitchen while she rolled out pie dough amid a cloud of flour and spice on her kitchen table.  Now, I peel buckets of apples at Lee’s sink while she rolls out dough on her kitchen counter.  The pies are stacked and frozen, close at hand for a funeral dinner, or a 4-H food stand, or just a homemade dessert during harvest.
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Grandma Hurst would always help with corn, standing or sitting, slicing with her knife toward her and huffing for breath as she worked.
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I think of Millie’s dinner rolls, the first item on everyone’s plate during the holidays, a food I never cook...and never will...because her rolls are better than anyone else’s.  Several years back, she gave all the “girls” a tutorial on her dough...a kind gesture, but we all know that kind of cooking is more art than science, more earned than learned.
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Apple bread is what I bring for all occasions.  The recipe is super easy...if you don’t mind peeling...and is another one of those plug and play breads that cooks for an hour every time and...almost always...comes out of the pan cleanly.  It can be bread...or dessert.  It can be frozen. It can even pretend to be a “healthy” treat!  I don’t know how many loaves I’ve made through the years, or how many times I’ve given away the recipe, but I hope it gives as much pleasure in the eating as I have had in the making and baking.


When I make my very favorite recipe, it is almost a reverential experience.  That’s because the cream cheese coffeecake is such a special occasion dish that I almost always make it for Christmas and Easter mornings.  Unlike many of my go-to baked goods, this one requires time and planning: each cake needs five eggs and yeast and sixteen ounces of cream cheese.  The dough must be mixed and then chilled for at least 2 hours.  The eggs must be separated. The cream cheese has to be softened. The dough is split and rolled thin; then the filling is spread, the second layer rolled and carefully laid atop and the two crusts crimped together and trimmed. Then the cake has to rise.  Maybe I’ll raise it on the range top with the oven warming, but often I put a dish towel over the pan and set it on the radiator in the kitchen.  The last little bit of dough I flatten into a cross….for Easter...or a star for Christmas.  And then wash the top with a bit of egg white and bake.  Through the years, baking cream cheese coffeecakes for the family..or Easter breakfast at church...has tended to be a late night task, lending a peaceful and prayerful atmosphere to the warm kitchen. As offerings go, it is small, but it is cooking for the very best reason: as a gift.


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